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Being a single male in Atlanta, I find it very hard to develop the ideal relationship. Whether its trying a new restaurant or catching up on the latest blockbuster hit, I usually find myself enjoying them alone. I have a group of friends that are hilarious and very loyal. Yet sometimes I yearn for that special relationship where intimate feelings can be exchanged without the feeling of guilt. You know the type of relationship when the loving is so good just the thought of his or her name makes the hair on the back of your neck stand up? If you are looking for a relationship that has the potential to knock you off your feet, its your lucky day! If you are wondering why should luck be in your favor remember the past relationships you have experience and honestly think what the issues were.
- Did your relationship end around the Summer weather change?
- When the snow melted was your relationship dissolved?
- Are you still in contact with your EX?
- Did you ever see your EX lover in public with another person after the break up?
If your answer was “YES” to any of those questions, its time to pull up a chair and take detailed notes about a subject called “Cuffing Season”.
Now, cuffing season is just a fancy term for “Relationship” and it usually begins around the end of the summer. When the weather gets colder, people who are still single craves another body for warmth and attention. Both parties can enjoy the benefits until the Sun begins to shine brighter upon the Earth. When it starts to become Spring then Summer, people are prone to stay single and mingle with a variety of people not a specific person.
Do not be alarmed because cuffing season works two ways. You don’t always have to be the person who is “cuffed”. Take the handcuffs off before the relationship is over if you know this only temporary.