Not all of us speak the same “love language” or show love in the same way, but there are several common ways to tell whether someone likes you or not. Body language, what they say, how they treat you, and how they talk around you or even talk about you can give you many hints! Have you stolen someone’s heart? Here are the top 5 universal signs that someone likes you:
If this is paired with a lingering smile every now and then that is a definite sign. We generally look at things we find attractive for long periods of time, our pupils dilate (if their eyes get shiner this is a good indication that their eyes are dilated), and we may look into that person’s eyes a lot. If someone is making googly eyes at you best believe they have the hots for you my friend. If they check you out here and there and their eyes linger below your chin, they definitely don’t like you platonically.
Constantly Wanting to Be Around You, Spend Time With You, Or Be With You
If this person is always communicating with you and spending time with you this means that they enjoy your company and they want more of it. Someone who doesn’t like you, at least, platonically is not going to want to be around you or even care. If they enjoy having you around and speaking with you they may also want to get to know more about you. Don’t be surprised if sooner or later they pop the question.
Talk About You A Lot
If they are always asking about you or you overhear that they are saying good things about you this is an indication that they think about you a lot. If you’re always on someone’s lips best believe you’re always on their mind.
Trying To Impress You
If you see that they suddenly start to dress nicer than usual after you’ve met and interacted with them this could indicate that they are trying to look cute for you. If they groom themselves in your presence, or they make their voice more sultry when speaking to you this is also a sign. They may also pretend to be into the same things that you are to impress you.
You Run Into Each Other By “Coincidence” Too Much
If they find out where you like to shop, socialize, etc. and you start running into them, there’s a good chance that they are looking for you and your company. They are trying to create a situation in which you two can reconnect once more. It may be a coincidence if it just happened once, but if it happens too often and they know you like to go to a particular place they most definitely just want to see you.
If the signs are clear and you guys really get along; come out of your shell, and ask that special person out! You may be glad you did in the future; it’s better to try and get rejected than to have regrets and think about the “what if’s” later.